The Book Woman of Troublesome Creek – A Review

“What I wanted most was to be okay as a Blue. I never understood why other people thought my color, any color, needed fixing.”

― Kim Michele Richardson, The Book Woman of Troublesome Creek

I believe I initially found out about this book because of the controversy over Jojo Moyes potentially taking aspects of this book and using them in her book, The Giver of Stars. A friend even recommended The Giver of Stars to me. I decided I would first read The Book Woman of Troublesome Creek and then see if I wanted to read Jojo Moyes book. After reading both books, I would decide for myself what I thought about the controversy.

Our protagonist is Cussy Mary Carter, who has a rare genetic condition that makes her skin appear blue (based on the real-life Blue People of Kentucky). Cussy lives with her coal-mining father and works as a packhorse librarian in Appalachia, delivering books by horseback to people in her community. Because of her blue skin, she and her father (believed to be the only two blue people left, which we find to not be true) are outcasts and face prejudice, especially by the reverend.

What I enjoyed about this book was learning about the blue people of Kentucky. The prejudice that Cussy faced, and real blue people would have faced, was fascinating to consider. Richardson included a character named Queenie, a black woman who was also a packhorse librarian, and it showed the reader how Cussy was treated in comparison to a black woman, who of course was discriminated against. I liked how Queenie was bright and talented, and even secured herself a librarian position in Philadelphia. Her letters to Cussy later in the novel, show how she was able to get out of an unhealthy situation and better her life – and books were a crucial aspect of that.

Another difficult aspect of the book was about poverty. The setting is 1930s in Kentucky – so it’s no surprise that poverty is a big issue! I really enjoyed seeing the minor characters in this book and how they struggled with poverty, food scarcity, and lack of education. All difficult topics to read about, but well-done.

Character-driven is certainly a way to describe The Book Woman of Troublesome Creek. And by character-driven, I also mean “slow.” I have gone back and forth about this book. There were things I liked about it, of course – ultimately, I rated it 3.5 stars, but I also felt sort of… bored. I gave it 3.5 stars because it’s a book I keep thinking about after being done with it for weeks. I like being challenged by books, so I’m glad I pushed through with it, even though I wasn’t amazed by it.

Even though it felt slow, it was a good read, and I would recommend it. I started this post by talking about Jojo Moyes book, The Giver of Stars. Even though I enjoyed this book, and I thought that I would read The Giver of Stars so that I could compare the two, after finishing it, I’m not at all interested it giving it a try. I thought Richardson did a good job – good enough that I don’t think I need to read another book that is similar. Even though Moyes’ books are fast reads for me, I think I might actually be bored with it. What I loved about The Book Woman of Troublesome Creek was learning about a part of history I didn’t know anything about before. And so, it kind of seems like, mission accomplished. I don’t need another book to learn more about the subject.

Do you have a book that you loved for one reason but also found yourself bored or frustrated by? Have you read either The Book Woman of Troublesome Creek or The Giver of Stars? I’d love to hear about your experience with either or both of these books!

What I Read in April

April feels like ages ago, but I’ve finally finished collecting my thoughts on some of my recent reads. I zipped through many of the following books and would recommend just about all of them for summer reads! If you’re putting books on your library’s “hold” list for upcoming vacations, I would especially encourage you to add “Young Jane Young” and “The Stars are Fire,” my two favorite books of April. They may also end up on my top books of the year!

Miller’s Valley by Anna Quindlen

I don’t know what to say about this book! It’s a coming of age story of Mimi Miller, a bright young woman growing up in a small farming town in Pennsylvania. I’m captivated by Quindlen’s writing and I’m still not sure why. This story was very enjoyable.




Crazy Rich Asians by Kevin Kwan

I’m not really proud that I flew through this book and enjoyed it as much as I did. I waited for months on the library’s wait list for the first in the series though. And I can understand the buzz! It’s such a fun read, perfect for the summer. And as a side note, it’s great to see Asians represented in literature. This book has been turned into a movie that will come out in Summer 2018 and features an all-Asian cast, which is very exciting!


China Rich Girlfriend (Crazy Rich Asians, #2) by Kevin Kwan &

Rich People Problems (Crazy Rich Asians #3) by Kevin Kwan

The entire series was fun, light, and great as a break between some heavier literature. 


Annihilation by Jeff Vandermeer

I picked up this book (and the following two books in the trilogy) for my husband at his request. They’re fairly short, but good grief, this book got off to a slow start! I found myself constantly interrupted when reading it, but I think the bigger issue was that I just couldn’t get into it. I strongly disliked the narrator’s voice. There were a couple of things from the plot that interested me but I’m unsure if I’ll finish the series. Someone at my library requested Book #2 so I need to return it before I can pick the rest of the series back up. Gene wants to see the movie and I’m a big proponent of reading the book first, so I probably will relent even though I’m not super excited about it.


Lily and the Octopus by Steven Rowley

Eh. It was cute but also a little weird. It was compared to Life of Pi, which is such an amazing book, that I think my expectations were much too high. “Lily” and is Ted’s twelve year old dog and “The Octopus” is the cancerous tumor on Lily’s head. I did enjoy Ted’s journey as he realized how lonely he had become and he’s able to once again love again. But, there are a lot of fantasy elements in this book, and that’s not something I enjoy. I found myself saying “this isn’t happening” over and over, as I tried to figure out which events were real and which were imagined. I think if you are a dog person, you will probably enjoy this book, but since I’m not, I didn’t connect emotionally with the story very much.


The Stars Are Fire by Anita Shreve

I finished this book in a day. A day when I also washed, dried and folded five loads of laundry. And exercised. And cooked. Just so you know, I didn’t shirk my duties to stay glued to this book! It was suspenseful but not in a “thriller” sort of way, more in a human interest kind of way. Shreve’s writing was terse and simple, my favorite style. I loved the setting: post WWII in Maine and the characters, who I was rooting for the whole way through. Plot-wise: we follow a young housewife who is stuck in a less-than-thrilling marriage as a fire ravages her town, affects her family dramatically, and alters the course of her life.


Young Jane Young by Gabrielle Zevin

Zevin also wrote The Storied Life of AJ Fikry  which I read years ago and was utterly enraptured by. Seriously, such an incredible novel – especially for anyone who loves books! As usual, because of my high expectations I was nervous to read another book by Zevin, but again, I was blown away. She writes about a congressional intern who has an affair with her boss. She completely uproots her life and starts over but her past catches up to her, of course. It’s a light read but tackles a tough subject. I definitely recommend this one!


Lots of Candles, Plenty of Cake by Anna Quindlen

I wanted to read a non-fiction book by Quindlen since I’ve been enjoying her writing so much the past two months. This had some real gems in it. But I did feel a bit “young” reading it since I think many of her readers are probably about two decades older than me. She writes a lot about aging, and I could glean some things from it, but I probably wasn’t the target audience.



The Queen of Hearts by Kimmery Martin

It felt like an episode of Grey’s Anatomy. It was odd to read a book with hospital drama with a plot that really would fit perfectly into primetime TV. This book had a lot of buzz surrounding it this spring, but I didn’t love it. The protagonists were ok. And I disliked the ending, which felt like the last five minutes of Murder She Wrote with the resolution being REALLY spelled out. If there are two characters that are best friends and one is hiding a secret relating to the other, it’s fairly obvious how the plot is going to go. For someone who likes hospital dramas, they may really enjoy this book, I just felt that it wasn’t very original.

What I Read in March

In the midst of March’s snow days, I discovered a new favorite author, Anna Quindlen. I picked up her newest book at the library and that was that! Quindlen’s books are such a breath of fresh air in this never-ending winter that we find ourselves in. Otherwise, my March reads were enjoyable, with nary a dud! And for an April spoiler alert: I’m reading two different trilogies… among many other great books!

Carnegie’s Maid by Marie Benedict

Carnegie’s Maid by Marie BenedictHistorical fiction with an Irish female protagonist: yes! Besides the wonderful Irish culture that I love reading about, this book focused on the Carnegie family. It brought back memories of middle school social studies classes! I enjoyed learning more about the family and what it may have been like to be “new money” during the 1800s. Parts of it fell flat for me (unbelievable love interest, not an empowering lead character) but I enjoyed it as a historical novel. 


An American Marriage by Tayari Jones

An American Marriage by Tayari JonesAlmost every book-focused instagram account I follow posted a picture of the gorgeous bright blue cover in early 2018. When I saw it just sitting on a bookshelf at the library, I snatched it up! I loved the story, the characters, and of course, the incredible writing. Best of 2018, for sure. Also, it was interesting to have read Just Mercy last month and then read a novel that dealt with racial injustice. It made the story that much more powerful for me knowing that the plot of this story is a reality for many people in our country.


Salt to the Sea by Ruta Sepetys

Salt to the Sea by Ruta SepetysA YA World War II book. I liked it but I wasn’t wowed by it. It received quite a few awards so my expectations were higher. I do enjoy when I learn something from historical fiction. In this case, I learned about the sinking of the Wilhelm Gustloff, a German ship filled with refugees that was torpedoed. The story rotated between four narrators, which I would have enjoyed had the chapters not been so SHORT! Some chapters were just a page or two. It made the story feel like I was jumping around a lot and not investing in a character as much. Had I read this as a teenager, I probably would have loved it, but it just fell a little short for me.


Firefly Lane by Kristin Hannah

Firefly Lane by Kristin HannahI quickly abandoned Winter Garden by the same author (not my taste) and plunged into this older best seller. I can’t say that the quality of the writing was that great, but I did enjoy it once I got into it. Great if you’re pregnant and want a good cry. It focused on the friendship of women through the decades. There is a sequel but I don’t think I’ll be picking it up.


Dear Fahrenheit 451: Love and Heartbreak in the Stacks: A Librarian’s Love Letters and Breakup Notes to the Books in Her Life by Annie Spence

Dear Fahrenheit 451 by Annie SpenceI love when I can say, “I’ve never read a book like this before.” It was very true of Dear Fahrenheit 451. Written by a librarian to her books, it’s adorable, funny, and had lots of great recommendations. It’s a quick read and great if you feel a bit stuck between books. As a caveat, it does have a lot of (unnecessary) language.


The Boys in the Boat: Nine Americans and Their Epic Quest for Gold at the 1936 Berlin Olympics by Daniel James Brown

The Boys in the Boat by Daniel James BrownGoodness, this was a long read. There are two components to this book: rich history of the early 1900s in the West and so many details about rowing. I loved the history. I wouldn’t have wanted less information about the rowing, though. It was a wonderful, inspiring read. Reminiscent of Laura Hillenbrand’s Unbroken


Still Life with Bread Crumbs by Anna Quindlen

Oh dear, I found a new favorite author! Where has Anna Quindlen been all my life? Our protagonist is an older photographer who leaves New York for a small town. I won’t say more. It was so lovely!




Alternate Side by Anna Quindlen

Alternate Side by Anna QuindlenBe prepared for reviews on every one of Anna Quindlen’s books!!! I’ve got them on hold at the library. I love when the setting of the novel is so crucial to the text that it is like a character. This is very true for this novel, which takes place in New York. This is the story of an upper-class family but also a story about race. Reviews on Quindlen’s newest novel are mixed but I loved this book.


Glory over Everything: Beyond The Kitchen House by Kathleen Grissom

Glory over Everything by Kathleen GrissomI was very surprised that I enjoyed this book as much as I did! I loved Grissom’s The Kitchen House and I did not expect that a second book would live up to the first. Jamie was one of my least favorite characters in The Kitchen House but it was interesting to see his character develop. I liked how the format was similar to The Kitchen House, with one than one narrator. Also, I liked that Grissom didn’t feel find it necessary to check back in on every character from The Kitchen House. She introduced new characters that were just  as wonderful and interesting.


And Every Morning the Way Home Gets Longer and Longer by Fredrik Backman

And Every Morning the Way Home Gets Longer and Longer by Fredrik BackmanGorgeous novella by the wonderful Fredrik Backman about an elderly man and his grandson. I’m a huge Backman fan and absolutely floored that his books are translated and still read like poetry. 

What I Read in February

Hello Readers! While I haven’t been writing, I have been busy reading (and visiting doctors for this pregnancy!). I finished my least favorite book of the year so far, as well as some other incredible books that took me by surprise. We may already be into spring, but here’s an overview of what I loved and hated in February.


Why Did I Even Read These Books:


Those Who Save Us by Jenna Blum

those who save usPass! Why this book was on my kindle, I couldn’t tell you. But I found myself on a treadmill without headphones, so I pulled this up on my kindle app. I should have abandoned it early on, when I got to some graphic scenes that added nothing to the novel. I appreciated that the author wanted to tell a World War II story from the perspective of a German woman. There were aspects that I found interesting, but I didn’t like any of the characters. I was glad to be done with it.


Sing Unburied Sing by Jesmyn Ward

sing unburied singA supernatural road trip story with a lot of drugs and horrible parenting. What about that description makes people love this book so much? It came highly recommended. I hated it. I don’t even want to talk about it. I know there is some good stuff in here – there must be if people are loving it so much – but it’s not for me.

Great February Reads:


Just Mercy by Bryan Stevenson

Just Mercy by Bryan StevensonI wish I could give this book to everyone who struggles to see injustice in our judicial system. I know they wouldn’t read it, though. It’s difficult to read. And yet, there is some hope. I felt grateful for people like Bryan Stevenson who have dedicated their lives to helping the oppressed and making their plight known. Our family is passionate about justice, so this was an obvious read for me, but I do recommend it to anyone.


Attachments by Rainbow Rowell

Attachments by Rainbow RowellCute, fast read. Add this to your “beach reads” list! I needed a light read after Pachinko, which was certainly “epic” and a struggle to finish. Rainbow Rowell writes both YA and adult novels, and this was one of her most popular adult novels. I started and abandoned one of her YA novels already – too much teenage angst for me!


Eleanor Oliphant is Completely Fine by Gail Honeyman

Eleanor Oliphant is Completely FineA must-read! It is laugh-out-loud funny and also heartbreaking. Such wonderful writing. I turned to Gene again and again to tell him what was happening in the book because I was so excited about it. This is one of the best books of the year for me so far.

The Best We Could Do by Thi Bui

Reading a graphic novel was a first for me! I can’t remember the last time I was so touched by  a memoir. I thought the graphics might be distracting from the story going into it. However, at no point did I wish it was a regular book without the graphics. They enhanced the story. The way Thi Bui weaves history into her memoir, with hand-drawn maps, helped me to understand the history of Vietnam. I wish books like this could be included in history curriculum in schools. It was so much easier to grasp hold of what was happening and how it impacted people than our standard history books.


Other Books:


A Wrinkle in Time by Madeleine L’Engle

A Wrinkle in Time by Madeleine L'EngleI read this book in second grade, which if you’re wondering, is too young (in my opinion). I remember nothing about that first read. There are Christian themes in here! Who knew!? I will most likely read this book along with my children as they get older, but I do wonder what age would be appropriate. Gene read this as well and we both finished it and said “huh”. He thought it was similar to C.S. Lewis’s Space Trilogy, which I haven’t read before. I’ll probably pick them up sometime this year since he loved them.


Pachinko by Min Jin Lee

Pachinko by Min Jin LeeI loved the first third of this book but grew more frustrated with it as it continued. It had everything to do with the characters. Since it was an epic novel that spanned generations, the second and third sections of the book focused on different characters in the family. They grew increasingly shallow. The first section was about a female and the later parts were focused more on the males in the family. This was probably a huge component as well. The males were more educated and more opportunities before them, even though they were minorities (Korean) in Japan. I definitely recommend, but know that the novel changes and focuses on different characters.

Books for February

My January reads left me absolutely motivated to continue to read ALL THE BOOKS. I might be even more excited for my list of books for February! I plan to read some bestsellers and award winners from 2017, as well as some challenging non-fiction. Here’s a list with a brief description of each books for February that I hope to complete!

Non-Fiction Books for February:

the road back to you by Ian Morgan CronThe Road Back to You by Ian Morgan Cron is my non-fiction pick for this month. Since I read Reading People last month, I’ve wanted to dive into Enneagrams more in depth. The book has been incredible. My type (#5 – The Observer) is pretty rare. I’ve had many moments of surprise as I realize there are other people out there like me! Some of the feedback on Enneagram study is that it can be focused on the negative. However, this book encourages growth as a way towards spiritual transformation. I’ve read the chapter on Fives already, but I still want to work through the other types. I will probably be reading through this one slowly in February.

Just Mercy by Bryan StevensonJust Mercy by Bryan Stevenson is another non-fiction pick for me that I actually began in late January. Bryan Stevenson is a young lawyer who founded the Equal Justice Initiative. EJI is dedicated to defending the poor, the wrongly condemned, and women and children. I am floored by this book so far. Our family cares deeply about justice issues, but even so, this book is incredibly challenging.

Top Fiction Books for February:

Eleanor Oliphant is Completely FineEleanor Oliphant is Completely Fine by Gail Honeyman is a Modern Mrs Darcy pick for a “Book recommended by a librarian.” My library’s website actually included a page of recommendations from many librarians in our entire library system, so I found this book on the list. It came up over and over again! The reviews are incredible for this book. I can’t wait to find out why so many librarians recommend it!


Pachinko by Min Jin LeePerhaps the book I am most excited for: Pachinko by Min Jin Lee. Everything about this book makes me want to read it. It’s about several generations of a Korean family in Japan, beginning in the early 1900s. I love a good family saga! I’m also really excited about the setting, because it’s incredibly different from anything else I’ve ever read! It’s a National Book Award Finalist for 2017, among many other awards.  


A Wrinkle in Time by Madeleine L'EngleIs everyone getting excited about the film version of A Wrinkle in Time? I plan to wait for it to be available for rent but I want to reread it in anticipation of the film! Unfortunately, I first read it as a young child and I don’t have any memory of what it’s about. I’m excited that Gene is reading this one too, so we can talk about it together. He was hesitant but my one sentence explanation hooked him. I said something about time “wrinkling” and the phrase “time-space continuum” (which I’m not sure is actually relevant at all). Did you know that A Wrinkle in Time was once on the Banned-Books list? That qualifies it for another book on the Modern Mrs Darcy list. Score!

Glory Over Everything by Kathleen GrissomGlory Over Everything by Kathleen Grissom is a continuation of The Kitchen House, which I really enjoyed as a bonus book in January. It’s a stand-alone novel, but includes characters from The Kitchen House, most notably, Jamie Pyke, son of a slave and the master of Tall Oaks plantation. The Kitchen House was one of my favorite books in January so I’m very excited about this one!

Bonus Fiction Books:

The Golden House by Salman RushdieThe Golden House by Salman Rushdie begins with the inauguration of Barack Obama and follows a wealthy immigrant family in Manhattan. That’s all that I know about it! It came recommended by a podcaster who has similar taste in novels as I do. The opening line hooked me:



“On the day of the new president’s inauguration, when we worried that he might be murdered as he walked hand in hand with his exceptional wife among the cheering crowds, and when so many of us were close to economic ruin in the aftermath of the bursting of the mortgage bubble, and when Isis was still an Egyptian mother-goddess, an uncrowned seventy-something king from a faraway country arrived in New York City with his three motherless sons to take possession of the palace of his exile, behaving as if nothing was wrong with the country or the world or his own story.”


Attachments by Rainbow RowellAttachments by Rainbow Rowell is a YA novel that also came recommended by two podcasters that I enjoy (Sorta Awesome podcast). Hear more from these ladies hereRainbow Rowell comes highly recommended by them, so I look forward to my first book by her. It should be a fun, light-hearted read… which I may need since I have a few heavy non-fiction reads this month!

What I Read in January

My goal for 2018 is to read forty books but I started off the year on a much higher note… it must have been all those snow days! Or maybe it was just a lot of really great books (TEN!) that drew me in! I quickly made it through my January list, so I was able to add on a bunch of fun reads. Here’s what I read in January – what I loved and what left me disappointed!

My “Bonus Books” for January:

January Highlights:

The Kitchen House by Kathleen Grissom

The Kitchen House was an incredible historical fiction novel set in southern Virginia about an Irish indentured servant living with slaves on a plantation. It wasn’t what I expected. Truthfully, I wanted some flashbacks to life in Ireland but there was none of that. Despite the lack of rich Irish culture I was hoping for, I started to fall in love with the characters. I also enjoyed the format of the novel, which flip-flopped between two very different narrators. If you haven’t read this one yet (it’s a few years old), then I suggest you check it out! In February, I plan to read the follow-up to this book, Glory Over Everything.

I already shared a review of Reading People by Anne Bogel, which ended up being one of my favorite reads in January! Also, The Hate U Give by Angie Thomas was incredible and will probably be one of my top reads of the year.

I can’t forget two other novels I read in January, The Guernsey Literary and Potato Peel Pie Society by Annie Barrows and Mary Ann Shaffer, as well as Major Pettigrew’s Last Stand by Helen Simonson. Both were so lovely! They had wonderful protagonists and humor, even as they tackled some heavier issues. They are light reads, perfect for a trip, or just something will renew your love of reading, should you be in a reading drought!

A Book I Struggled With:

The Refugees by Viet Thanh NguyenI ended up being able to tackle a second “Modern Mrs Darcy” book off my list: a book written by an author of a different race, ethnicity or religion than my own. The Refugees, a book written by Viet Thanh Nguyen, is a collection of short stories, set in both Vietnam and America. Viet Thanh Nguyen’s previous book, The Sympathizer, is a 2016 Pulitzer Prize winner and on my list to read later this year.


If I’m being honest, I didn’t enjoy it. For starters, I don’t love short stories. I’m drawn to character-driven novels, so even while I can appreciate the well-crafted short story, I want to invest in a character. Another thing that makes this book difficult is the subject matter. It’s just heart-wrenching. It was certainly not the first book I reached for each night! Even though it’s fairly short, it’s took me longer than I expected. I still would recommend it because reading hard things helps us grow. While I don’t love painful stories of refugees who face rejection and abuse, I think it’s important for us to hear these stories.

I have some fantastic books picked out for February that I can’t wait to share! Stay tuned! For more detailed reviews of each book, find me on Goodreads.

Thoughts on Reading People by Anne Bogel

I did not expect to enjoy Reading People by Anne Bogel as much as I did. I’ve done personality tests galore over the years and always felt that the results felt short to truly capture me and explain what to do with said results. Even though I have taken countless Myers-Briggs tests, I couldn’t tell you what personality type I was before now. Bogel did an incredible job simplifying various personality tests, explaining them, and even giving helpful takeaways and recommendations on books or websites that can offer additional insights.

The personality frameworks and topics covered are: Introverts vs Extroverts, Highly Sensitive People, The Five Love Languages, Kiersey’s Temperaments, Myers-Briggs, MBTI Cognitive Functions, Strengthsfinder and Enneagram. I was familiar with all of them except Kiersey’s Temperaments, which I did find difficult to understand but grew more confident with as I reread the chapter. I thought that I would find the book redundant, but it was certainly not. Bogel even suggests jumping ahead to chapters that interest you more but I actually read it straight through and I learned something from each chapter.

I would absolutely recommend this book to anyone who has felt unimpressed with personality quizzes they have taken before. I would also recommend it to the personality-quiz junkie who never passes up a chance to learn more about themselves!

Anne Bogel is a fairly new name to me – I only knew her from her website, Modern Mrs Darcy, where she writes about books and hosts an annual reading challenge. She also has a fantastic podcast, What Should I Read Next?, which I highly recommend to anyone who needs help finding new books that fit their reading profile. She’s an excellent host on the podcast and I promise, it is not dry at all! In fact, it’s one of my new favorites! Just be sure that you have either your phone or planner nearby that you can jot down some of the titles she suggests!

Interested in more books like this?

Another recent read (end of December 2017) for me was The Four Tendencies by Gretchen Rubin, which asks the question, “How do I respond to expectations?” and then explains the four tendencies: Upholders, Questioners, Obligers, and Rebels. I found this book very enlightening as I discovered that I’m motivated externally and how knowing this, can help me to create structure or “external motivations” in my life to help me achieve my goals.

Coming soon… my review on The Road Back to You by Ian Morgan Cron. Anne Bogel set me on a journey to learn more about my personality type and how I relate to others and I’m continuing this journey through the Enneagram! I’ve been reading through this book and listening to Ian Morgan Cron’s podcast, Typology as well. I can’t wait to share more about the impact this has been having on my life!


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Thoughts on The Fringe Hours by Jessica Turner

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The Fringe Hours by Jessica TurnerMy first “personal growth” book of 2018 was The Fringe Hours by Jessica Turner. Apparently, she is loved in the Christian blogging community, but her name was completely new to me. I picked it up at the library simply because I stumbled upon it looking for something else and as I read the back cover, it looked like something I might benefit from!

“Fringe Hours” are pockets during the day where you can find some time to do something for yourself. They will probably vary from person to person but for a mom of young kids, I find that my available fringe hours are before everyone wakes up, during naps, and after my children go to sleep. Turner also mentions lunchtime as a popular time, especially for people who work and have a lunch-break they can use to read, go for a walk, etc. If children are at a practice or activity, a parent could also take advantage of this time. Lastly, during meals was a suggested time. This was the least likely time for me! (Walking away from a toddler and preschooler while they eat dinner sounds like a disaster waiting to happen!)

It came as no surprise to me that I have these chunks of time during the day that I could use. Except Jessica Turner was able to convince me to actually USE this time to do something for me. I was easily convinced that it was worth it to wake earlier in the morning to start the day doing something I loved, than to continue to wake up when my children wake up, whining about being hungry or needing help with something.

She asked questions throughout the book to help the reader identify passions, which may have been stifled for years or even decades! “What inspires you? Who inspires you?” I struggled at first to identify some of these interests, outside the obvious answers of reading and cooking. I think at this time in my life, these really are my passions.

If I struggled with anything in the book, it was a chapter called Embracing Help. Turner’s solution to create more time and less stress in the day, was to hire out help in areas like food prep, childcare, cleaning, home repair, and even hobbies (as in developing new hobbies). In the subsequent chapter, she discusses obstacles, with finances being the first one listed. It was difficult to read about how you need to look at your budget items and decide which things you can go without so that you can get help from outside the home, thus making your life less stressful. Turner gave an example of cutting her cable bill so that she could afford to have someone clean her house twice a month. I know many people may be able to easily eliminate some items that aren’t necessary or bringing them joy to be able to create room in their budget for services that will help them reduce stress. But I thought of the many families who do not have space in their budget to remove anything because they already have removed all the extraneous items. It felt like a potentially isolating chapter.

The other concept in the book that is a struggle for some, though not everyone, was learning to say no to things. Turner suggested holding activities up Kon-Mari style, asking “Does it bring me joy?” before saying yes to it. There are some situations where you may be able to do this and effectively say no to something because you do not have enough time to do it well. But there are many situations where you just need to figure it out and do it. There are plenty of things I’d like to say no to because they are stressing me out, but that doesn’t mean I can forego my responsibility. Turner might suggest picking up a baked item instead of taking the time to cook it yourself. But again, finances come into play, and not everybody is able to do this. Even while I could see how “saying no” does not always work, I think it is something that I should practice.

What The Fringe Hours taught me about finding time in my day to do something just for me and not feel any guilt!

All in all, a wonderfully challenging book. This genre of books is not my favorite and I can confess to seldom reading through the entirety of a “personal growth” book, but The Fringe Hours came into my hands at just the right time and was powerful for me. I’d love to hear what fringe hours would look like in your day. What times could you identify in your day where you could be doing something that would bring you joy?

What I’m Reading in January 2018

I’ve never before set specific reading goals for myself – reading was simply just something I did when I felt like it! But the joy that was brought into my life in 2017 by choosing to put down my phone and spend more time immersing myself into the world of fiction, was something I wanted to continue in 2018. With another baby on the way, I knew I could put Candy Crush back on my phone or make sure I planned ahead to have a list of books I wanted to be reading while nursing in the middle of the night! Instead, I’ve decided to work through Modern Mrs. Darcy’s 2018 Reading Challenge, which I know will help me to diversify the types of books that I usually pick up!

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I’m beginning January with a “classic” and choosing a book from this category was probably the biggest challenge for me this year! When researching books that were similar to Jane Austen, I stumbled across an author named Georgette Heyer, whose work was completely unknown to me. I decided to read The Convenient Marriage, which had good reviews and was available at my local library. Her novels are probably not true “classics” but since this is my least favorite category on Modern Mrs. Darcy Challenge, I decided to go easy on myself. I have a back-up book by Anne Bronte sitting on my nightstand should I have time this month!


Next, I plan to read eight “Personal Growth” books, another category that I tend to shy away from. I hope to finally read something by Brene Brown, learn more about Enneagrams, grow spiritually and maybe work on my time management (which doesn’t sound at all appealing to me!!). January’s book is The Fringe Hours: Making Time for You by Jessica Turner, a book I stumbled across at the library. I’m so glad that I found it! Again, this is not my favorite genre, but I am loving it so far!


Lastly, I have an exciting list of what I call “Fun Books,” a list of acclaimed books from 2017, some being YA (Young Adult) fiction. It has been years since I have enjoyed any YA books and I know that the quality of books in this category has grown tremendously. I can’t wait to catch up on such a great genre! My YA January pick is The Hate U Give by Angie Thomas. It received the 2017 National Book Award and is a Goodreads Choice for 2017.


I’ve also got some “fun books” on my list that are a bit older and that I’ve somehow missed! Another “fun book” I plan to read in January is The Guernsey Literary and Potato Peel Pie Society by Annie Barrows and Mary Ann Shaffer. I downloaded this on my Kindle years ago and couldn’t get into it. Since I’ve never heard a bad thing about this book, I’m going to give it another go!


My goal for the year is FORTY books, which feels a little daunting to me, but this is a challenge after all! In years past, I’ve thought, “This is the year I will finally get through a Russian novel,” but I’ve found that particular goal frustrated me and did the opposite of bringing any joy into my life! This year, I’m hopeful that the books I’ve chosen will teach me, inspire me, and truly challenge me. I’d love to hear if you have any specific goals when it comes to reading!

If you’re interested in following me on Goodreads, you’ll be able to follow along with all the books I’m reading in 2018. I’ll only post about my absolute favorites here.